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Surviving The Tough Times In Your Relationship

Every marriage will go through times of challenge. Some marriages will be strengthened while others will be destroyed. Tough times may be as common as financial problems or the aftermath of a hurtful argument. Marriages may suffer as the result of a miscarriage or the death of a loved one. Whatever challenge you face, remember this: It is better to be prepared for tough times and not have them than to have tough times and not be prepared.

Here are five of the essential principles to strengthen your relationship and give you an edge during times of adversity. 1) Be Mindful Not To Worry. If something needs to be fixed, fix it if you can but remember that worry never fixes anything. Worrying is a waste of time and energy. It's like sitting in a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but it gets you nowhere.

Worry prevents you from seeing hope and solutions. Besides, most things we worry about never happen. 2) Be Patient Towards Your Partner. Patience is an excellent remedy for the tough times you will go through.

You love your partner so don't choose the moments of crisis to come down on them. Don't let stress sway you into losing perspective. Realize that if you are not careful, adversity can damage your relationship. Stay away from blaming, using criticism to make a point, lecturing, sarcasm and name calling. Everything becomes possible again when love and patience are present.

3) Practice Forgiveness.It is amazing how quickly someone will turn on the person they love. Don't let upset feelings infect your relationship.

Resentments close the door on the possibility of a bright future. Love is a continous act of forgiveness. Everybody likes the idea of forgiveness until they have to be the one to forgive. If you want your relationship to be better than most, you must instill this habit of forgiveness. 4) Use Your Sense Of Humor.

A laughing couple is much stronger than an arguing or withdrawn couple. If you can find humor in the challenge you are facing you can survive it. Laughter dissapates hopelessness. You cannot argue and laugh at the same time. It is impossible.

The choice is up to you. 5) Vow To Stay Connected. Stand together against adversity. Promise to endure throughout the storms that most likely will come your way at some point or another. Staying connected takes practice. People commonly choose to withdraw from each other at times of trouble.

This distance may feel safer but it does long term damage to the relationship. If you truly love your partner then vow "We will get through this, Together!" You are the only one who is responsible for your character. Do not let other people or circumstances determine your actions. If there is goodness in your relationship, then it is worth fighting for. Give your partner a message of committed reassurance.

Let them know, "I'm Here For You." and "We Will Get Through This." Things To Keep In Mind During The Tough Times 1) Don't blame each other for the situation. 2) Lower your expectations of one another until the crisis subsides. Eat leftovers or fastfood.

Don't worry too much about the housework. 3) Remind yourself that the tough times won't last forever. 4) Don't take advice from people who have a negative attitude. 5) Ask for help from family and friends. 6) Remember your love and commitment to each other. 7) It's okay to let the answering machine take your calls.

8) Reduce your stress by exercising and getting plenty of sleep.

Mark Webb is the author of How To Be a Great Partner and founder of Partner Focused Relationships™. Sign up for Mark Webbs Relationship Strategies Ezine ($100 value). Just visit his website at http://www.powerfulrelationshipadvice.com or http://www.therelationshipspecialist.com.

Surviving The Tough Times In Your Relationship

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